Calm, private discussion
Fear and worry are heard without judgement.
Since you moved abroad nothing has worked, and your mother says nazar has followed you
You left with garlands and everyone's envy. Two years on, the job is insecure, the room in Jersey City is small, you have had flu three times and you cry in the subway. On the phone your mother says someone's eye fell on your going, and that she is having a puja done. You do not know whether to be comforted or more afraid.

Fear and worry are heard without judgement.
We separate genuine concerns from ordinary stress or health.
Guidance on prayer and protection from anywhere.
Only protective and peaceful remedies are advised.
A young man on a work visa finds that the life he was congratulated for is lonely and precarious. He cannot say so at home. His family, hearing only that things go badly, concludes that envy at his departure has brought misfortune.
Moving countries is among the most stressful things a person does. Isolation, visa anxiety, long hours, poor sleep, unfamiliar food and winter darkness lower mood and immunity. Families back home, unable to picture it, reach for the explanation they know.
A consultation gives you somewhere to say how it really is. A prayer or practice from home can be suggested as comfort. We do not attribute your difficulties to anyone's ill will, and promise no change of luck.
Loneliness, strain and low mood are common and not a sign of failure.
So they can support the real you.
Community, routine, daylight, help when you need it.
Work, sleep, who you talk to. The main service page explains the consultation.
How the consultation worksIt leaves you alone with it. Tell one person honestly.
It drains the confidence you need for interviews and friendships.
See a doctor. In the US, 988 is available in a crisis.
Tell your family, gently, what life here is actually like. "It is harder than it looks, and I am lonely." Let your mother's puja be her way of caring; accept it as love. You need not accept the idea that you are cursed.
Find people. A temple, gurdwara, mosque or church, a cricket league, a language meetup, colleagues. Get outside in daylight, especially in winter. Cook the food you miss. If visa or job worries dominate, speak to an immigration attorney so you know your real position. If you feel hopeless for more than a couple of weeks, see a doctor. Ask your family to call at a fixed time each week, so the calls become something to look forward to rather than a check on how badly things are going.
The session is online and fits around New York hours. We speak your language of home. Birth details are for a reading only.
We do not think so. What you describe is what many newcomers go through.
If it comforts her and you, yes. Ask that it be simple.
It can be read for that tradition. Hard periods pass, and practical steps still matter.
That is a real option to weigh calmly, not a defeat and not an escape from a curse.