Calm, private discussion
Fear and worry are heard without judgement.
His mother said you would never be happy, and you have not been since
When you ended the engagement, she stood in the doorway of the house in Parramatta and said it in Punjabi, slowly, so you would remember: you will weep as you have made my son weep; no home of yours will ever settle. That was two years ago. You have since had a relationship fail and a pregnancy lost. On bad nights you hear her voice.

Fear and worry are heard without judgement.
We separate genuine concerns from ordinary stress or health.
Guidance on prayer and protection from anywhere.
Only protective and peaceful remedies are advised.
A woman who broke off an arranged engagement is cursed aloud by the man's mother before witnesses. She tells herself it is nonsense. Each later sorrow, though, arrives with that sentence attached, as if stamped on it in advance.
A spoken curse from an elder draws on deep cultural weight. It works by attaching itself to the ordinary griefs that come to everyone, so that each seems a fulfilment. The miscarriage and the failed relationship have their own causes; they would have happened had she said nothing. But the words have made them harder to bear.
A consultation gives you room to say what was said and what it has done. A prayer of release can be suggested as your own act. We do not treat the curse as a real force, and promise nothing about the future except that it does not belong to her.
To someone, deliberately, so they stop echoing in private.
Each grieved for itself, without her voice.
A small ritual of your own, or simply a decision.
Then what has happened since. The main service page tells you how sessions are held.
See the consultation processSorrows come to the uncursed too. Notice your good days equally.
You were entitled to. Her pain does not make you wrong.
The miscarriage deserves its own grief and support.
Say it aloud to a friend or to us: what she said, where, how you felt. Then say: "Those were a hurt mother's words. They have no authority over my life." Some people write the sentence down and burn or bury the paper. The act is yours and the meaning is yours.
Give your real losses proper care. Talk to your GP about support after miscarriage; organisations such as SANDS offer counselling in Australia. Look at the relationship that ended for its own reasons. A daily prayer for peace, or a visit to a temple or gurdwara, can mark a new chapter. If you can, wish that family well from a distance, and be done.
Wherever you are in Australia, the session is online. We listen to the whole of it. Birth details are optional.
We do not believe words can direct a life. They can weigh on the mind, which is what you are feeling.
No. Miscarriage has medical causes and is sadly common. Your doctor can tell you more.
Only if you wish to for your own peace. Nothing needs lifting.
Yes, we can suggest one. Its power is in your intention.