Calm, private discussion
Fear and worry are heard without judgement.
Three deaths in the family in two years, and people have begun to whisper
First your father, of his heart. Then your cousin on the highway. Then your aunt, quickly, of cancer. At the last cremation an old relative said quietly that the family should have a remedy done, that there is a pitru dosh or something worse. You are grieving three people and now you are frightened for those who remain.

Fear and worry are heard without judgement.
We separate genuine concerns from ordinary stress or health.
Guidance on prayer and protection from anywhere.
Only protective and peaceful remedies are advised.
A family loses a grandfather, an uncle and a young nephew within eighteen months. The women start counting who might be next. A priest is consulted who speaks of ancestral displeasure and names a costly ceremony at a distant shrine.
Deaths do sometimes fall close together in a family, particularly as a generation ages, and each one has its own medical or accidental cause. The mind, overwhelmed, looks for a pattern and a way to prevent the next. Fear of a curse can keep a family from mourning, and can be exploited.
A consultation gives your grief a hearing and helps you tell mourning from dread. The customary rites for the departed can be discussed as your tradition. We do not tell families they are cursed, and promise no protection from mortality.
Its cause, and whether anything could have been done.
Shraddha and tarpan as acts of love, not fear.
Health checks, safe driving, time together.
Who they were and how each died. The main service page describes the consultation.
How the consultation worksDread steals the time you have with each other.
Take no decision while grief is fresh.
Many mourners blame themselves. Say it to someone.
Allow yourselves to grieve each person separately. Gather and talk about them. Observe the rites your family follows, simply and sincerely; their purpose is remembrance and peace. They need not involve great expense or travel.
Then turn fear into something useful. If heart disease or cancer runs in the family, have the living relatives checked. Insist on helmets and seat belts. Spend time with the elders. If anyone is weighed down by sorrow for many months, unable to function, encourage them to see a doctor. A family that draws together after loss is not cursed. It is doing what families do. Write down what you remember of each person you lost and share it at the next family gathering; remembering them together often eases fear as much as grief.
The session is online and can be joined from Bhopal by several of you. We listen without hurry. Birth details are optional.
We do not say that of any family. Losses can cluster without a hidden cause.
A traditional idea about duties to ancestors. Its remedy is remembrance and charity, which need not be costly.
Decide later, calmly, and ask what it would ordinarily cost. Simple rites at home or a local temple are accepted by tradition.
By mourning fully, taking sensible care of the living, and not letting anyone trade on your fear.