A private space for both
What you say is not shared with family or friends.
One of you cannot rest until it is tidy. The other does not see the mess.
Shoes by the door, a wet towel on the bed, cups left where they were finished. To one of you this is a home being lived in. To the other it is a daily insult. In two-bedroom flats across Noida, where both partners work and help is unreliable, the standard of the house becomes a running battle.

A private space for both
What you say is not shared with family or friends.
Calm and balanced
Disagreements are looked at without taking sides.
Phone or video
Works when spouses live apart for work.
Not a replacement for help
Counselling or legal advice may also be needed.
Suppose a husband who drops his laptop bag on the dining table each evening. His wife moves it each evening. On the hundredth evening she throws it on the floor. He is astonished: "It is only a bag." To her, it is a hundred times he has not thought of her.
People differ in how much disorder they notice and how much it troubles them. The tidier partner ends up doing more, feels unsupported and becomes sharp. The more relaxed partner feels policed in their own home. The quarrel is about respect and fairness more than about cups.
A consultation helps you set a standard both can keep and divide the work to match. A Kundli reading is there if you want one. Peace usually arrives with a few specific agreements.
Usually three or four things, not everything. Start there.
A level of order both accept, lower than one's ideal and higher than the other's habit.
Tasks split by time available, with help hired where the budget allows.
Each of you names the three untidy things that bother you most, or the three demands that feel excessive. The main service page explains the session.
See the consultation processIf it is done to the agreed level, leave it. Redoing says, "You cannot do anything right."
Then use a checklist. Noticing can be learned.
Give the untidier partner a corner that is theirs to keep as they like.
Exchange your lists of three. The more relaxed partner commits to those three without reminders. The tidier partner commits to saying nothing about anything outside the list for a month. Both find this harder than it sounds.
Then divide the regular work on paper: cooking, dishes, laundry, bathrooms, shopping. If both of you work full time, the split should be near equal, or paid help should cover the gap. Set ten minutes each evening when you both tidy together with music on. Shared effort feels very different from one person cleaning around the other.
The session is online, so you can join from your flat in Noida or Greater Noida. Each of you explains what home should feel like. Birth details are requested only with a reading.
Perhaps for your partner, and theirs too low for you. A workable middle is the aim.
If you both work, the home is a shared responsibility. Discuss hours and divide accordingly.
If you can afford it, it removes much friction. You still need to agree the rest.
Only if you wish it. Practical agreements settle this kind of dispute.