A private space for both
What you say is not shared with family or friends.
The snoring sent one of you to the spare room, and nobody came back
It started sensibly. He snores, she is a light sleeper, and both have early mornings. One night on the sofa became a week in the guest room, and now it has been a year. You both sleep better. You also no longer talk at the end of the day, and a certain ease between you has gone. Couples all over California have drifted into this.

A private space for both
What you say is not shared with family or friends.
Calm and balanced
Disagreements are looked at without taking sides.
Phone or video
Works when spouses live apart for work.
Not a replacement for help
Counselling or legal advice may also be needed.
Take a couple in their forties. She moved to the spare room during a stressful month at work. It was meant to be temporary. Nobody has mentioned moving back. He wonders if she prefers it. She wonders if he minds. Their teenage son assumes they have fallen out.
Different sleep needs are real, and exhaustion makes everyone short-tempered. But the shared bed is also where many couples have their only unhurried conversation and their casual affection. When sleeping apart is unplanned and undiscussed, each partner may read it as distance.
A consultation helps you talk about what the arrangement means and how to keep closeness within it. A Kundli reading is available on request. Where you sleep matters less than whether you have chosen it together.
Relief for one may feel like rejection to the other. Ask.
Loud snoring deserves a doctor's attention; mattresses, schedules and earplugs can also help.
Time together in one bed before sleep, even if you then part.
When you started sleeping apart and whether either of you has wanted to change it. The main service page explains how to book.
See the consultation processAn arrangement that simply happened leaves room for hurt. Talk about it once, openly.
Plan for it. Closeness need not depend on sharing a bed all night.
Many happy couples sleep apart. It is no one else's concern.
Ask each other plainly: do you like sleeping apart, do you miss sharing, what would you prefer? You may both be waiting for the other to suggest a change.
If snoring is the cause, see a doctor; heavy snoring with pauses in breathing can be a health condition and is treatable. If you keep separate rooms, build in closeness: half an hour together in one bed each night to talk, weekend mornings shared, affection during the day. If you decide to return, try it for a fortnight with practical aids before judging.
Wherever you live in California, the session is online and discreet. We listen to both of you without assuming what the arrangement means. Birth details are needed only for a reading.
Not in itself. It harms when it is unspoken and closeness is lost along with it.
Say that you miss sharing and suggest a trial. Your spouse may feel the same.
It can indicate a medical problem such as sleep apnoea. A doctor should assess it.
Some traditions give guidance, which we can discuss if you wish. Your comfort and closeness come first.