A private space for both
What you say is not shared with family or friends.
The evening drink has become every evening, and more than one
It used to be weddings and the occasional weekend. Now there is a bottle most nights, and a different person at the table by ten. In the morning he is sorry or silent. You have tried pleading, hiding it and shouting. In Ludhiana, where drink is part of much social life, many wives and some husbands carry this worry without telling anyone.

A private space for both
What you say is not shared with family or friends.
Calm and balanced
Disagreements are looked at without taking sides.
Phone or video
Works when spouses live apart for work.
Not a replacement for help
Counselling or legal advice may also be needed.
Picture a wife who times dinner so the children are asleep before their father starts on his third drink. She makes excuses to her in-laws. When she raises it, he says he works hard and deserves to relax. The next night is the same.
Regular heavy drinking usually has something under it: stress, habit, company, low mood. The drinker minimises it; the spouse becomes watchful and anxious. Arguments happen at the worst moment, when he has been drinking, and achieve nothing. Shame keeps the family from seeking help.
A consultation offers you a place to speak about it without judgement and to plan sensible next steps. A Kundli reading is optional. We are not a medical service; where drinking is heavy, a doctor's help is part of the answer.
Money, mood, the children, safety. An honest account from both sides.
In the morning, sober, calmly, with specific examples. Never mid-drink.
Doctors, de-addiction centres and family support groups. Nobody has to manage this alone.
How often, how much, and what happens afterwards, over a recent fortnight. The main service page explains how to arrange a session.
How the consultation worksSuggest proving it with two weeks off. The result tells you both something.
Excuses to family and employers shield the habit. Stop explaining it away.
Your safety and the children's comes first. Leave the room or the house and call for help.
Choose a morning. Say what you have seen and how it affects you and the children, without names like "drunkard". Ask him to see a doctor with you. Sudden stopping after heavy daily drinking can be medically risky, so this is not something to manage only at home.
Look after yourself as well. Tell one trusted person. In India the national de-addiction helpline is 14446, and government hospitals in Punjab run de-addiction services. If there is violence or you are afraid, call the Women's Helpline on 181 or 112. You cannot make another adult stop, but you can stop hiding it and decide what you will and will not live with.
Our sessions are online, so you can speak from Ludhiana privately, alone at first if you prefer. Whoever attends is heard with respect. Birth details are relevant only if you ask for the Kundli reading.
If it is frequent, increasing, or affecting mood, money or family life, it deserves attention whatever the amount.
Raise it when he is sober and calm, briefly, and suggest a doctor. Do not argue while he is drinking.
We do not promise that. Some families find comfort in prayer, but medical and practical support is what treats dependence.
Yes. Wanting to talk about it is a good first step, alongside seeing a doctor.