A private space for both
What you say is not shared with family or friends.
Your marriage is on your spouse's feed, and you never agreed to that
The anniversary dinner was photographed from four angles before anyone ate. The argument you had last week was hinted at in a caption. She follows and comments on people you have never met. He thinks it is harmless. You feel that your private life has an audience. In Los Angeles, where being seen is half the culture, couples often disagree about the screen.

A private space for both
What you say is not shared with family or friends.
Calm and balanced
Disagreements are looked at without taking sides.
Phone or video
Works when spouses live apart for work.
Not a replacement for help
Counselling or legal advice may also be needed.
Take a wife who shares most of her day online. Her husband, a private man, finds a photograph of himself asleep on the sofa with two hundred likes. He asks her to take it down. She says he is being oversensitive and that everyone posts such things. He starts turning his face away when the phone comes out.
For one partner, posting is connection and a little appreciation in a busy day. For the other, it is exposure. There can also be unease about who is watching and replying. The sharing partner feels censored; the private one feels used as content.
A consultation helps you set rules you both accept about what is shared and with whom. A Kundli reading is optional. Privacy in a marriage belongs to both people, and so consent should too.
Company, validation, a record of good moments. Worth understanding before restricting.
Photographs and stories about a person need that person's agreement.
Moments lived first and recorded second, if at all.
What was shared about your life together, and how the other felt on seeing it. The main service page gives the session details.
How the consultation worksEven hints invite outsiders in. Keep disagreements entirely offline.
Agree how such contact is handled, and be open about it.
Set phone-free times. It is the lost attention that hurts most.
Agree a short code. Nothing featuring the other goes up without a yes. Nothing about arguments, money, health or the bedroom, ever. Children's photographs by joint decision. The private partner, in turn, agrees not to object to everything.
Set times when phones stay away: meals, the first half hour at home, outings for two. If comments or messages from others make one of you uneasy, talk about it openly instead of monitoring in silence. Ask your spouse what they look for online. It may be something you can give them directly.
The session takes place online and can be joined from anywhere in Los Angeles. Each of you explains where your own line is. Birth details are requested solely for the optional reading.
No. Wanting control over your own image and story is reasonable.
A total ban is rarely necessary. Agree limits about him and about private matters.
Ask about it calmly. Openness on their part is the reassuring sign.
Only if you choose it.