A private space for both
What you say is not shared with family or friends.
Your spouse has a close friend of the opposite sex, and you are uneasy
They work together, take coffee together and message in the evening. Your spouse says it is only friendship and that this is normal here. You were raised to think otherwise, and something in you tightens each time the name comes up. Indian couples in Italy, adjusting to a more relaxed social life, often meet this difference between them.

A private space for both
What you say is not shared with family or friends.
Calm and balanced
Disagreements are looked at without taking sides.
Phone or video
Works when spouses live apart for work.
Not a replacement for help
Counselling or legal advice may also be needed.
Think of a wife working at a firm in Bologna who becomes friendly with a male colleague. They share lunches and jokes. Her husband says nothing for months, then explodes over a late message. She is shocked; she has done nothing wrong. He is ashamed of his outburst and still uneasy.
Friendships across the sexes are ordinary in many workplaces. For someone brought up where they were rare, they can feel threatening, and the unease is hard to voice without sounding accusing. The partner with the friendship feels mistrusted. The other feels their discomfort is being waved away.
A consultation helps you talk about what each of you considers appropriate and why. A Kundli reading may be requested. Agreed boundaries protect both the marriage and the freedom to have friends.
What each of you learned about men and women as friends, and how it shapes your reactions.
A friendship your spouse knows about, has met and can see is rarely a danger.
What kind of contact, at what hours, on what subjects.
How it began, how much contact there is, and what exactly causes unease. The main service page explains the format.
How the consultation worksUnease kept in turns into an outburst. Say it early and mildly.
The worry is about a situation, not your character. Respond to the feeling.
Sharing marital troubles with an opposite-sex friend is where many problems start. Avoid it.
The uneasy partner says what they feel without accusing: "I am not saying anything has happened. I feel uncomfortable and I want to talk about it." The other listens and does not treat it as an insult.
Then make the friendship visible. Introduce the friend; include your spouse sometimes. Agree some limits that suit you both, for example no late-night private messaging and no discussing your marriage with the friend. The partner with the friendship keeps to these willingly. The other, having been heard, tries to let ordinary contact pass without comment. If jealousy remains strong whatever is done, it is worth exploring separately.
The session is online and can be joined from anywhere in Italy. Both the worry and the wish for freedom are heard. Birth details are needed only for the optional reading.
Yes, where the friendship is open and both spouses are comfortable with its limits.
It reflects your upbringing and deserves to be heard. It can then be weighed against the facts.
Discuss what would make him comfortable short of that. Total bans often breed resentment.
No. Only honest conversation and what you observe can tell you that.