A private space for both
What you say is not shared with family or friends.
She earns the salary. He decides where it goes.
She works twelve-hour shifts on a ward. Her pay goes into an account he manages, or is sent straight to his family for the house being built at home. She has to ask for money for a phone recharge. When she objects, she is told a good wife does not keep accounts with her husband. Among nurses and other working women in Kuwait, this is a quiet and frequent hurt.

A private space for both
What you say is not shared with family or friends.
Calm and balanced
Disagreements are looked at without taking sides.
Phone or video
Works when spouses live apart for work.
Not a replacement for help
Counselling or legal advice may also be needed.
Think of a nurse from Kerala who has worked abroad for nine years. Her earnings have paid for her husband's family home and his sister's wedding. Her own mother needs an operation, and she finds she cannot send money without his permission. He does not see himself as unfair; this is how it has always been done.
In many families the husband is assumed to manage all money, whoever earns it. Often there is no ill intent. But a person who works and has no voice in how her income is used begins to feel like a resource. Resentment builds, especially when her own parents' needs are placed last.
A consultation helps the two of you discuss this without it becoming a question of obedience. A Kundli reading is available if wanted. A fair arrangement respects both the joint household and each person's dignity.
How the present arrangement came about, and whether either of you chose it.
The one who earns has at least an equal say in how it is used.
Her parents' needs considered alongside his.
Month by month, as far as each of you knows. The main service page has the booking information.
How the consultation worksEach adult should have funds they can use without permission.
Then the assets should be in both names, and she should see the papers.
If she is denied all access, or threatened, that is financial abuse and needs outside help.
Begin by listing where the income has gone over the past year, with both of you looking at the same statements. Agree that from now on large uses are decided together: remittances, property, loans to relatives.
Set up the practical side. An amount each month that is hers to use or send as she wishes. Her name on property and savings bought with her earnings. A fair share for her parents' needs. He may worry about what his family will say; the two of you can present it as your joint plan. If she is prevented from keeping any of her pay or her documents, she should seek help from her embassy or a trusted organisation.
The session is online and can be arranged around shift work in Kuwait. Both of you are heard, and neither is lectured. Birth details are taken only with a reading.
No. Wanting a say in what you earn is reasonable, and it does not make you a bad wife.
Managing is one thing; deciding alone is another. Shared decisions make for a stronger household.
Your husband should explain to them, as a joint decision, what you will contribute from now on.
No. For that, consult a qualified adviser. We help with the agreement between you.