A private space for both
What you say is not shared with family or friends.
Every weekend there are guests, and you do the cooking
Friday he mentions that two families are coming for dinner on Saturday. That means shopping, cleaning and six dishes. He will pour drinks and talk cricket. She will be in the kitchen until eleven and washing up until midnight. Among Indian families in Dallas and its suburbs, where weekends revolve around get-togethers, this is a familiar grievance.

A private space for both
What you say is not shared with family or friends.
Calm and balanced
Disagreements are looked at without taking sides.
Phone or video
Works when spouses live apart for work.
Not a replacement for help
Counselling or legal advice may also be needed.
Suppose a husband who loves a full house. His wife is a good cook and he is proud of it. He invites people without asking. She manages each time, smiling. One Saturday she tells him she has a headache and stays upstairs. He is embarrassed before his friends and angry with her.
Hospitality is a real pleasure and a tradition worth keeping. But when one partner issues the invitations and the other bears the labour, generosity is being exercised with someone else's time. The host basks; the cook is exhausted and unseen.
A consultation helps you agree how often you entertain and how the work is shared. A Kundli reading is optional. Hosting is enjoyable for both only when it is planned by both.
Nobody is invited until both have said yes.
Shopping, cleaning, serving and washing up divided, or the meal simplified.
Perhaps twice a month, with free weekends between.
How many gatherings you hosted, who invited the guests and who did what. The main service page explains how a session runs.
How the consultation worksThen you will be doing most of the preparation this time. Ask first in future.
Guests come for company. Three dishes, a potluck or ordering in is perfectly hospitable.
Bring her out of the kitchen. Serve together and eat together.
Agree a simple rule first: no invitation goes out without both of you agreeing to the date. Then decide how often you want company. Keep some weekends clear for rest and for yourselves.
For each gathering, divide the tasks beforehand. If she cooks, he shops, cleans and washes up, or the reverse. Suggest potlucks, which many families in the Dallas area are glad to do. Thank each other in front of the guests. And if one of you needs less socialising altogether, the other can sometimes meet friends elsewhere.
You can take the consultation online from Dallas, Plano, Irving or Frisco on a free evening. Each of you describes what a good weekend looks like. Birth details are requested only for the optional reading.
Enjoyment cannot be ordered. Hosting should be a joint choice with shared work.
No. Plan it with your spouse and take on a real share of the labour.
Suggest another date or a simpler format. Your spouse should present it as a joint decision.
Only if you ask for it.