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"First build the house, then we will talk of marriage"
You have worked abroad for six years. Each time you raise marriage, there is one more thing to finish first: the upper floor, the loan, your sister's wedding, a plot of land. Your parents do not reject the person you love. They just keep moving the line. Meanwhile her family is asking how much longer.

Family matters kept private
Details about both families stay confidential.
Compatibility explained
Charts are compared in plain language, not just a score.
Remote consultation
Useful when the two of you live in different cities.
No forced outcomes
Guidance on timing and approach, without guarantees.
A man working on a project site sends most of his salary home. He has asked three times to marry the woman he has known since school. "After the house is done," his father says. The house was done last year. Now it is "after we clear the debt on it".
Parents may sincerely believe a man should be established before he marries. They may also, without quite intending it, be reluctant to share his income with a wife. A condition that keeps changing is a refusal that has not been spoken. The woman waiting carries the cost.
A consultation helps you set out the finances clearly and ask for a fixed target. A muhurat or matching can be considered. No promise is made about your parents' reply.
A plain record of what you have sent and what it built.
A sum or a date after which the wedding goes ahead.
They need an honest timeline or their patience will end.
By year, and what remains outstanding. The main service page describes how sessions run.
See the consultation processName the pattern kindly, and ask for a last one.
Begin keeping a portion yourself for your own household.
Tell her exactly where things stand. She may have a view on waiting.
Write down what you have sent home and what it has paid for. Present it without resentment: "We have built this together. I am proud of it. Now I would like to marry."
Ask your parents to name a single remaining goal and a date. Agree it, and say that the wedding will be fixed for soon after. Start setting aside part of your salary in your own account for the home you will share. Tell your partner's family the date yourself. If the line moves again, you will know the condition was never the real obstacle, and can speak to that directly.
The session is online and can be joined from Iraq on your day off; your partner may join from home. Both of you are heard. Birth details are needed only for matching or a muhurat.
Up to a point. A fixed target is reasonable; one that keeps moving is not.
It is a fear. Tell them what support will continue, and still set your date.
Honesty and a real date, or the freedom to decide for herself.
It can be consulted for timing if you wish. Do not let it become another reason to postpone.