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Your two families have not spoken in twenty years
Love Marriage Specialist in Iran
There was a business partnership that ended badly, or a broken engagement in your parents' generation, or a dispute over land. You grew up hearing their name said with contempt. Then you met one of them, somewhere far from all that, and found you liked each other very much. Now you must tell people who have nursed a grievance for half their lives.
GUIDANCEIran
Compatibility explained
Charts are compared in plain language, not just a score.
Remote consultation
Useful when the two of you live in different cities.
No forced outcomes
Guidance on timing and approach, without guarantees.
A quarrel you inherited
A young man discovers that the woman he has fallen for is the niece of his father's former partner, whom his father blames for the loss of their shop. He delays telling anyone. When he finally does, his father says, "Anyone in the world but that family."
Old feuds become part of a family's identity. To accept the match can feel, to parents, like conceding that they were wrong, or betraying those who suffered. Often the younger generation knows only one side of the story, and the original parties have never spoken since.
A consultation helps you understand the history and plan a careful approach. Kundli matching is available where the families value it. We cannot promise a reconciliation.
Love marriage topics
What we look at before a love marriage
01
The story from both sides
What each family believes happened. They rarely match.
02
Who still holds the grievance
Often one or two people. Others may be tired of it.
03
A go-between
Someone trusted by both families who can carry a first message.
Collect both versions
Ask, quietly, what each family says happened and who was most hurt. The main service page explains the consultation.
How the consultation worksTypical obstacles
What stops couples in Iran from marrying
01
Taking a side in the old dispute
Do not judge it. Ask only that it not be passed to the next generation.
02
Telling parents abruptly
Prepare the ground. Shock revives the old anger.
03
Expecting the families to become friends
Civility at the wedding is a fair goal. Warmth may or may not follow.
POINTS FOR COUPLES
Keep these in mind
- Learn both families' accounts
- Start with the least bitter relatives
- Use a go-between both sides trust
- Aim first for civility
For couples in Iran
Ask them not to hand the quarrel on
You and your partner should each learn your own family's account, and compare them without arguing over who was right. Identify who is most bitter and who might be open.
Approach the more open relatives first. Say that you respect what your family went through and are not asking anyone to forget it, only that it should not decide your life. Find an elder or friend whom both sides trust to make contact. A small first step, a message of respect, a brief meeting on neutral ground, is enough. Sometimes a marriage ends a feud that both families had long wished to be rid of; sometimes it does not, and you will need to marry with a divided hall.
The session is online and can be joined privately from Iran. We help you plan the order of conversations. Birth details are for matching only.
Love marriage FAQ
Questions couples ask about marrying for love
It has happened. It can also harden positions for a while. Go carefully.
That you honour what he suffered, and that you were not part of the quarrel.
Only when both are ready, and with a calm third person present.
A joint prayer may help families who believe in it to make a fresh start. We do not claim it will.
Other locations
Love Marriage Specialist in other cities
- Delhi NCR
- Mumbai
- Bangalore
- Hyderabad
- Pune
- Ahmedabad
- Chennai
- Kolkata
- Jaipur
- Surat
- Ludhiana
- Amritsar
- Jalandhar
- Patiala
- Jammu and Kashmir
- Gurgaon
- Vadodara
- Indore
- Noida
- Bhopal
- Lucknow
- Chandigarh
- New York
- Dallas
- San Francisco
- San Jose
- Chicago
- Washington DC
- Houston
- Atlanta
- Seattle
- Los Angeles
- California
- Birmingham
- London
- Manchester
- Leicester
- Slough
- Dubai
- Qatar
- Kuwait
- Italy
- Germany
- Singapore
- Australia
- Iraq