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The person you love has a disability or a long-term condition
Love Marriage Specialist in Germany
She uses a wheelchair. He has had type 1 diabetes since childhood, or epilepsy that is well controlled, or impaired hearing. You have seen how they manage their life, and you admire it. Your parents in India hear only the diagnosis. "Why would you choose a lifetime of hospitals? What about children?" Their fear is loud, and largely uninformed.
GUIDANCEGermany
Compatibility explained
Charts are compared in plain language, not just a score.
Remote consultation
Useful when the two of you live in different cities.
No forced outcomes
Guidance on timing and approach, without guarantees.
A diagnosis your family cannot see past
A researcher in Munich tells his parents about his partner, who lost a leg in an accident as a teenager and works as an architect. His mother weeps. His father asks who will look after whom. Neither has asked a single question about what she can do, which is nearly everything.
Parents picture their child as a carer and imagine burden, expense and pity from relatives. They may know little about the condition and assume the worst. Some of their questions, about daily life, heredity and the future, are fair ones that you should be able to answer for yourself as well.
A consultation helps you separate fair questions from stigma and prepare for both. Kundli matching is available if the family asks. We give no medical advice and promise no change of heart.
Love marriage topics
What we look at before a love marriage
01
What you know, and what you should find out
Daily realities, likely course, any implications for children, from doctors.
02
Your partner's independence
Shown to your family through how they live, not argued.
03
Your own honest assessment
What you are prepared for, including harder days.
Gather accurate information
About the condition and how your partner manages it day to day. The main service page has the practical information.
See the consultation processTypical obstacles
What stops couples in Germany from marrying
01
Pity
It offends more than hostility. Ask your family to treat your partner as they would anyone.
02
Questions about children
Take proper medical advice together. Share what you choose to.
03
"You are throwing your life away"
Reply calmly that you are choosing a person, with full knowledge.
POINTS FOR COUPLES
Keep these in mind
- Be fully informed yourself
- Give your parents accurate facts
- Let them see your partner's independence
- Respect what your partner chooses to share
For couples in Germany
Replace their imagination with facts and a person
Make sure you yourself have a clear picture, from your partner and, with their consent, from a doctor. Know what daily life involves and what the future may hold. This is for your own decision first.
Then inform your parents, simply and accurately, and correct what they have assumed. Let them meet your partner in a setting where competence is obvious: at work, hosting a meal, travelling. Ask your partner how much they wish to explain; it is their story. Many parents move from fear to respect once they have seen a capable adult instead of a diagnosis.
The session is online and can be joined from anywhere in Germany, with your partner if you both wish. We listen carefully. Birth details are for matching only.
Love marriage FAQ
Questions couples ask about marrying for love
Their concern for you is natural. Much of it comes from not knowing, which you can remedy.
Ask a doctor about your specific situation. It is a decision for the two of you.
Model ordinary respect, and ask them directly to do the same.
Some read charts for health traditionally. It is not medical knowledge and should not guide this decision.
Other locations
Love Marriage Specialist in other cities
- Delhi NCR
- Mumbai
- Bangalore
- Hyderabad
- Pune
- Ahmedabad
- Chennai
- Kolkata
- Jaipur
- Surat
- Ludhiana
- Amritsar
- Jalandhar
- Patiala
- Jammu and Kashmir
- Gurgaon
- Vadodara
- Indore
- Noida
- Bhopal
- Lucknow
- Chandigarh
- New York
- Dallas
- San Francisco
- San Jose
- Chicago
- Washington DC
- Houston
- Atlanta
- Seattle
- Los Angeles
- California
- Birmingham
- London
- Manchester
- Leicester
- Slough
- Dubai
- Qatar
- Kuwait
- Italy
- Singapore
- Australia
- Iran
- Iraq