Information, not control
We do not promise to control anyone's mind or decisions.
One of you believes in these remedies. The other thinks it is nonsense.
She has been sending money to a pandit in India for pujas to fix the marriage. He found the transfers and is furious, less about the sum than about being the object of a ritual he was not told of. She says she was only trying to help. In San Francisco, where an engineer's scepticism often shares a home with a family's faith, this collision is common.

We do not promise to control anyone's mind or decisions.
Terms and traditions are explained honestly.
Consult from any city in Hindi or English.
We do not offer anything against another person's will.
A husband notices recurring payments on a joint card to an account in Varanasi. His wife admits she arranged ceremonies because he had grown distant. He feels manipulated. She feels mocked for a faith her mother and grandmother shared. Now they are arguing about belief instead of about the distance.
For one partner, prayer and ritual are a natural response to trouble. For the other, they are superstition, and being made their target without consent feels like a violation. Each is right about something: sincerity on one side, the right to be asked on the other.
A consultation helps you talk about the trouble underneath and agree how faith fits in your household. Any reading or prayer is optional and done only with both partners' knowledge. We do not act on anyone secretly, and guarantee nothing.
Usually to help, in the only way that felt available.
Secrecy, cost, and being acted upon without consent.
The distance or conflict that prompted it, still unaddressed.
What the one who arranged it hoped for, and what the other felt on finding out. The main service page explains how a session is arranged.
How the consultation worksMocking a partner's faith wounds deeply. Disagree without contempt.
Whatever its purpose, it damages trust. Agree a rule about money.
Return to what made her worried in the first place.
The partner who arranged the rituals can say: "I did it because I was frightened of losing you, and I should have told you." The other can answer: "I do not share the belief, and I see that you meant well." That exchange clears the ground.
Agree on two things. Any spending on religious services above a small amount is mentioned first. And nobody arranges a ritual concerning the other without their knowledge. Personal prayer remains entirely free. Then talk about the distance itself: when it began and what each of you needs.
The session is online and can be joined together from San Francisco. Both belief and doubt are treated with respect. Birth details are taken only if both of you want a reading.
Praying for your marriage is natural. Doing something aimed at your partner without telling them harms trust.
Say that it matters to you and ask for respect, while agreeing to be open about it.
Yes. Much of it is ordinary conversation, and any reading is optional.
No.