Information, not control
We do not promise to control anyone's mind or decisions.
Your spouse has asked for a divorce, and you want to stop it
The word was finally said, after months of distance. Papers have been mentioned, perhaps a lawyer. You do not want this. You would do anything to change their mind, and you have found people who say they can. Among Indian families in Dallas, where divorce still carries heavy stigma, the temptation to try something hidden is strong.

We do not promise to control anyone's mind or decisions.
Terms and traditions are explained honestly.
Consult from any city in Hindi or English.
We do not offer anything against another person's will.
A husband is told by his wife of eleven years that she has seen an attorney. He begs, then rages, then falls silent. His mother in Hyderabad sends him the number of a pandit who "stops divorces". He calls it from the car park at work.
By the time someone says divorce, they have usually been unhappy for a long while and feel unheard. Pleading and pressure confirm their decision. A ritual aimed at reversing their will is a further way of not listening. What sometimes helps is the opposite: taking their reasons seriously.
A consultation helps you understand what brought your spouse to this point and what a real response would be. A reading and personal prayer are optional. We do not attempt to override anyone's decision, and promise no outcome.
Heard completely, perhaps for the first time.
Specific, and begun at once, whether or not they stay.
Legal advice for yourself, and marriage counselling if they are willing.
Their stated reasons, in their words. The main service page explains how a session works.
How the consultation worksBoth push them away. Calm is more persuasive.
It usually hardens the decision.
See an attorney to understand your position, even while hoping to reconcile.
Ask your spouse for one conversation in which you only listen. "I want to understand why you are at this point. I will not argue." Then keep that promise. Say back what you heard. Ask whether they would consider counselling before any final step.
Whatever they answer, begin changing what was within your power: the temper, the absence, the drinking, the neglect. Do it because it is right, not as a bargain. Consult a family law attorney so you understand what lies ahead. If they are settled in their decision, the kindest and wisest course is to make the separation as decent as possible, especially if there are children. A couples counsellor who works with Indian families can be a useful neutral ground, especially if one of you finds it hard to speak openly in front of relatives.
The session is online and can be joined from Dallas or its suburbs. We speak honestly about what is and is not likely. Birth details are for an optional reading.
We do not claim that. Only your spouse can change their decision.
Sometimes, if they feel truly heard and see real change. Often not. We will be honest with you.
Ask an attorney. Delay by legal means rarely restores affection.
They may struggle with it. Your wellbeing and your children's matter more than appearances.