Information, not control
We do not promise to control anyone's mind or decisions.
Your partner's ex is still in the middle of your relationship
She messages him about the children at eleven at night, and about much else. He drops everything when she calls. Plans are changed around her moods. You feel like a guest in a relationship that has not quite ended. Friends say there are ways to remove a rival's influence. In Australian cities, where blended families are common, this strain is too.

We do not promise to control anyone's mind or decisions.
Terms and traditions are explained honestly.
Consult from any city in Hindi or English.
We do not offer anything against another person's will.
A woman engaged to a divorced father finds that his former wife phones daily and that he always answers. When she objects, he says it is for the children. She does not doubt that he loves her. She doubts whether there is room for her.
Where there are children, a former partner remains in the picture for good, and some contact is necessary. The difficulty comes when the boundaries are vague, when guilt makes one person over-available, or when the ex has not accepted the ending. The remedy lies in what your partner does.
We will not perform anything directed at another person. A consultation helps you say what you need and agree limits with your partner. Prayer for peace in your home is optional. No result is promised.
Children's arrangements are necessary. Late-night chats are not.
Often what keeps him at her call.
Times, channels and subjects for contact with the ex.
How often she is in touch, about what, and how he responds. The main service page describes the consultation.
How the consultation worksShe is the children's mother. Courtesy serves everyone.
Sometimes true. Ask which contacts really are.
Ask him what role he sees for you with the children and in decisions.
Tell your partner how it feels, without attacking her. "I respect that you are a devoted father. I need us to have evenings and plans that are ours." Ask him to help you separate what is for the children from what is habit.
Suggest practical limits: arrangements made by message or a co-parenting app, calls at agreed times except in emergencies, plans not changed at short notice. He is the one to tell her, kindly and firmly. Be warm to the children and civil to her. If he cannot or will not set limits over time, you will need to consider what that means for you. It helps to agree, as a couple, how you will both respond if she contacts either of you outside the agreed arrangements, so that neither is caught off guard.
Wherever you are in Australia, the session is online. We listen to how it has been for you. Birth details are optional.
No. We do not act against anyone. Boundaries set by your partner are what help.
Ask him. Often it is guilt and habit more than love.
Wanting clear limits is reasonable. Wanting no contact at all, with children involved, is not possible.
Only if the limits are agreed. Settle it before the wedding.