Information, not control
We do not promise to control anyone's mind or decisions.
Your son went abroad, and now he hardly calls
You sold land to send him to Canada. For the first year he rang every Sunday. Now weeks pass, the money comes irregularly, and when he does call he is in a hurry. Neighbours say foreign countries change children. Someone suggests a remedy to turn his mind homeward. In Jalandhar, a great many parents sit by a phone like this.

We do not promise to control anyone's mind or decisions.
Terms and traditions are explained honestly.
Consult from any city in Hindi or English.
We do not offer anything against another person's will.
An elderly couple have not had a proper conversation with their son in Surrey for two months. His mother believes his wife has turned him. His father wonders if he is ashamed of some difficulty. They visit a dera and are told a ritual will restore his affection in forty days.
Silence from a child abroad usually has plain causes: two jobs, debt, visa worries they do not want to confess, a marriage under strain, or guilt at not being able to send what was promised. Calls that begin with complaint become calls that are avoided.
A consultation helps you think about what may be happening and how to make contact easier for him. A prayer for his wellbeing is something we can suggest. We do not attempt to control anyone's mind and promise no result.
Harder than the photographs suggest. Many hide their struggles from parents.
If each one carries reproach or requests, he will dread them.
Short messages, voice notes, a fixed weekly time that suits his shifts.
How they began, what was said, and how they ended. The main service page explains how a session is arranged.
How the consultation worksIt forces him to choose and pushes him further off.
Begin with warmth. Ask about his day.
If you need support, say so once, clearly, and separately from affection.
For a month, change the pattern. When he rings, do not mention how long it has been. Ask about his health, his work, the weather. Tell him something cheerful from home. End before he has to hurry away.
Send small things in between: a photo of the fields, a voice message from his father. Ask gently, once, whether he is under any pressure he has not told you about, and say you would rather know. Speak kindly to his wife. Pray for him at the gurdwara or temple as you always have. Children come back to a door that is pleasant to open.
The session is online, so there is no travel from Jalandhar. We listen as you would wish to be listened to. Birth details are needed only for a reading.
We do not claim that. Prayer for him is a comfort; the bond is rebuilt through how you speak to each other.
It is far more likely he is tired, pressed or embarrassed. Blaming her usually makes things worse.
Ask him plainly and calmly about his situation. He may be in trouble he has hidden.
If he is willing and it can be afforded, time together often mends a great deal.