Respect for your family
Details about the match and the family stay private.
One of you wants to go back to India. The other does not.
It comes up after every phone call home and every visit. One of you looks at ageing parents and says it is time. The other looks at the children's school, the career, the house, and says not yet. In Washington DC, among couples who came for a few years and stayed fifteen, this argument has no easy winner.

Respect for your family
Details about the match and the family stay private.
Kundli explained clearly
Doshas and timing are explained without scaring you.
Phone or video
For families in India and abroad.
Measured advice
Remedies are suggestions, not guarantees of marriage.
Imagine a husband whose father has a fall in Hyderabad. He starts reading about schools in India that night. His wife, who has built a career in policy work, feels the ground shift. "We agreed we were settled," she says. "That was before," he answers. Neither sleeps.
The question of returning is rarely about geography alone. For one partner it is duty, belonging, guilt. For the other it is freedom, work, the children's future, or a fear of living under family expectations again. Each hears the other's position as a rejection of what they value most.
A consultation slows the argument down so each of you can explain what staying or returning would mean. Should you want it, a reading of the chart is offered. Nobody else can make this choice for you; our role is to help you make it without damaging each other.
Behind "go" and "stay" are needs: to care for parents, to keep a career, to feel at home.
Long visits, a trial year, one partner travelling more, parents coming over.
Their age and schooling matter. They should be heard, not made to choose.
Describe what life would look like in three years if you stayed and if you returned. The main service page tells you how sessions run.
How the consultation worksCircumstances changed. Treat old agreements as open to review, not as weapons.
A parent's health scare creates urgency. Separate the immediate response from the permanent decision.
Researching schools or jobs in secret destroys trust. Share every step.
Give each other one full, uninterrupted turn to explain. The partner who wants to return describes what they fear losing by staying; the other does the same for leaving. You may find the real needs are narrower than the positions.
Then list arrangements that meet both. Could one of you spend six weeks a year with the parents? Could a move be tried for a fixed period with an agreed review? Put rough costs and dates beside each. A big decision becomes easier when it can be tested rather than declared.
We meet by video call, which suits Washington DC couples with long working days. Both views get equal time. Should you ask for a Kundli reading, we will need your birth details; otherwise none are taken.
No more than wanting to return. Both come from real attachments. Guilt is not a good guide either way.
Sometimes, depending on jobs and immigration status. Check the practical side with the right professionals first.
Then agree a date to revisit it, and what each will do meanwhile. A pause is better than an ultimatum.
A reading may offer a traditional view of a period. Where to live remains your joint decision.