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One old hurt comes back in every argument
It happened years ago: something said at the wedding, a time you were not defended, a promise broken. It was apologised for, more or less. Yet whenever you disagree about anything at all, it returns, word for word. One of you is tired of paying for it. The other does not feel it was ever truly heard.

Respect for your family
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Remedies are suggestions, not guarantees of marriage.
Imagine a wife who, in her first year of marriage, was insulted by her husband's sister while he stood by. He said sorry afterwards, briefly. Twelve years later, in a dispute about a holiday, she says, "You have never taken my side, not since that day." He throws up his hands. "How long will you keep bringing that up?"
A hurt keeps returning when the injured person feels the apology dealt with the event but not the meaning. To her it was proof she stood alone. To him it was a single bad afternoon. Until the meaning is acknowledged, every new disagreement confirms the old conclusion.
A consultation gives the old matter one full, careful hearing so that it can finally rest. A reading of your Kundli may be added at your request. Forgiveness tends to follow real acknowledgement, and seldom comes before it.
Beyond the facts: what it told the hurt partner about their place in the marriage.
Naming what was done, its effect, and what would be done differently now.
Once properly heard, both commit to not using it as ammunition.
Each of you could write what happened and what it meant to you, separately. The main service page describes the steps of a session.
How the consultation worksA quick sorry ends a conversation. A full one shows you understood.
It weakens the present point and reopens the wound. Keep to the subject at hand.
Forgiving is not excusing. It is choosing to stop carrying it.
Set aside a quiet hour for this alone. The hurt partner tells the whole story, including what they concluded from it. The other listens to the end without correcting details or explaining. Then they say back what they heard.
A full apology follows: what I did or failed to do, how it affected you, and how I would act today. If there is something that can still be put right, such as speaking to the relative concerned, do it. Afterwards agree that the matter is closed, and that if the feeling resurfaces it will be mentioned gently, as a feeling, not as a charge.
Sessions are conducted online and can be joined from Iran at a time you both set aside. Each account is taken seriously. Birth details are needed only by those who ask for the astrological reading.
Usually because they do not yet feel understood. Being fully heard once often achieves what years of arguing have not.
Ask what was missing from the apology. Often it is acknowledgement of how it felt.
No. Feelings last until they are attended to. You can still choose how to raise them.
It cannot promise that. Getting past it depends on the conversation you have.