Respect for your family
Details about the match and the family stay private.
Parents now, partners rarely
The baby is healthy and you are grateful. You are also exhausted, short-tempered and have not finished a conversation with your spouse in weeks. In a small Mumbai flat with a newborn, a marriage can slip into pure logistics without either of you noticing.

Respect for your family
Details about the match and the family stay private.
Kundli explained clearly
Doshas and timing are explained without scaring you.
Phone or video
For families in India and abroad.
Measured advice
Remedies are suggestions, not guarantees of marriage.
Picture two new parents at eleven at night. One is rocking the child. The other is washing bottles. They exchange information: when the last feed was, who is taking the morning. That is the whole of the day's conversation. One of them thinks, "We used to laugh." The other is too tired to think anything.
A first child changes everything at once: sleep, money, freedom, roles. Many couples report this as the most strained period of their marriage, even when the child is deeply wanted. Resentment often builds around who is doing more, and affection is the first thing to be postponed.
A consultation gives you a rare half hour to talk as a couple. A Kundli reading is optional, as a traditional view of this demanding phase. It cannot give you more sleep. Small, deliberate attention to each other is what keeps the marriage warm.
List who does what, day and night. An honest picture prevents the silent tally.
A short daily conversation that is not about the baby keeps you connected.
Grandparents, relatives or paid help can free an hour. Accept it without guilt.
Note who handles which tasks across twenty-four hours. The main service page explains how sessions are arranged; a short session during nap time is fine.
How the consultation worksBoth of you probably feel this. Compare lists calmly and redistribute.
Tiredness, not loss of love, is the usual cause. Small gestures count for a lot right now.
Agree your own approach and let each of you handle your own family's suggestions.
Write down the daily and nightly tasks and divide them in a way both find fair, allowing for work and feeding. Revisit it every few weeks, because babies change fast. Then protect ten minutes a day to talk about anything else. It is not much, and it is enough to remind you that you are more than a roster.
Accept help when it is offered, and ask for it when it is not. If either of you feels persistently low, tearful or unable to cope, especially the mother in the months after birth, speak to a doctor. This is common and treatable, and it is not a failure.
Sessions are online, so you can join from home in Mumbai without arranging childcare. We talk about how you are both managing. Birth details are needed only for an optional Kundli reading.
Very. Exhaustion and new roles strain most couples. It improves as sleep returns and routines settle.
Start with ten minutes a day and one outing a month when help is available. Small and regular works.
Show the full list of tasks and ask for specific ones to be taken over. Concrete requests work better than complaints.
A reading may offer perspective. Practical sharing and rest matter most.