Respect for your family
Details about the match and the family stay private.
You help your parents, and your spouse objects
Your parents need help: a medical bill, a monthly amount, a visit. You want to give it. Your spouse or their family feels your duty now lies only with the home you married into. In Indore and elsewhere, a married person's care for their own parents can become an unexpected battleground.

Respect for your family
Details about the match and the family stay private.
Kundli explained clearly
Doshas and timing are explained without scaring you.
Phone or video
For families in India and abroad.
Measured advice
Remedies are suggestions, not guarantees of marriage.
Imagine a wife whose father falls ill. She wants to send money and visit for a week. Her husband hesitates. His mother remarks that a married daughter's first duty is to her husband's home. She does not argue. She transfers a smaller amount quietly and feels both guilty and resentful.
Custom in many families still treats a daughter's parents as secondary after marriage, while a son's support for his is assumed. That leaves one spouse caring in secret and the other feeling deceived when they find out. The real issue is not the money. It is whether both sets of parents count.
A consultation helps you talk about fairness and agree how you will support each family. A Kundli reading is optional. The arrangement is one of principle and budget, decided between husband and wife.
Both of you have parents. Agree that each deserves care, as a starting point.
Decide a regular amount or share for each side, with room for emergencies.
No hidden transfers. Secrecy does more harm than the amount involved.
Note what support each set of parents receives now and what they may need. The main service page explains how sessions are arranged.
How the consultation worksBring it into the open. Explain why you felt you had to hide it.
The spouse whose family says this should answer them. Care for one's own parents does not end at marriage.
Look at what goes to each side over a year. Facts make fairness easier to discuss.
Start by agreeing the principle: both families matter. Then look at needs and means. One set of parents may need more because of health or income. Decide what you can give regularly and how you will handle emergencies. Having it agreed in advance spares both of you a negotiation every time.
The spouse whose relatives object should speak to them, plainly and kindly. A wife who earns has every right to help her parents from her income, and a husband's support for that strengthens a marriage. If one spouse controls all the money and forbids any help, that is a deeper problem of control and should be faced as such.
Sessions are online and private, joined from Indore at a convenient time. We discuss your families' needs as you describe them. Birth details are needed only for an optional Kundli reading.
Yes. Legally and morally she can. In a marriage it works best when discussed openly and agreed.
Ask your spouse to address it with them. It is their place to explain your joint decision.
Look at each family's needs and your means. Equal principle, adjusted for circumstances.
It may offer a traditional view. Fairness between families is a decision you make together.