Confidential conversation
Details about you and your partner are kept between us.
One of you is homesick and wants to go back
You moved abroad together. One of you has settled in. The other misses home with an ache that does not ease: the food, the language, family nearby. They have begun to say, "Maybe we should go back." In Germany, far from where you both started, this can divide a couple.

Confidential conversation
Details about you and your partner are kept between us.
Both sides considered
Patterns in communication and trust are explained plainly.
Phone or video
Suitable if you or your partner live in another city.
Honest limits
Astrology is guidance and not a substitute for talking things through.
Imagine a couple three years into life abroad. One has a job they like and new friends. The other struggles with the language, dreads the winters, and counts the months between visits home. On a grey Sunday they say, "I don't think I can do this forever." The first feels the ground shift.
Homesickness is more than missing a place. It can be loneliness, loss of identity, or grief for family moments missed. The settled partner may hear it as criticism of the life they have built. The homesick one may feel their unhappiness is treated as a problem to be fixed, not a feeling to be understood.
A consultation helps you listen to each other and consider what could be changed. A Kundli reading is optional, as a traditional view of this period. Where you live is a decision for both, taken with care.
People, language, belonging, weather. Some of these can be eased where you are.
They have built something too. Its value deserves recognition.
Longer visits home, a set period before reviewing, or a move elsewhere.
Each of you could note what you value here and what you miss from home. The main service page explains how sessions are arranged.
How the consultation worksTake it seriously. Dismissing it deepens the loneliness.
The settled partner need not apologise for doing well, only make room for the other's feelings.
Ask how long the homesick partner feels they can stay. Hidden limits surface badly.
Give the homesick partner time to describe it fully, without solutions. Then ask what would help most. Sometimes it is practical: language classes, a community from home, more frequent trips. Sometimes it is a time limit: "Two more years, then we decide." Knowing there is a review can make staying bearable.
The settled partner should say honestly what leaving would mean for them. Put the options side by side. If deep unhappiness persists whatever you try, it has to weigh heavily in the decision. And if the low mood is constant, a doctor or counsellor, ideally one who speaks their language, can help.
Sessions are online and arranged for Central European or India hours. We hear both sides. Birth details are needed only for an optional Kundli reading.
It can be, if it is lasting and severe. First see what might ease it where you are.
Tell them plainly how serious it is. Look together for changes or a time frame you can both accept.
Listen, help them build connections, and make visits home possible. Do not minimise the feeling.
It may suggest favourable directions in traditional terms. The practical choice is yours.