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Introduced by family, asked to decide quickly
Your families introduced you. You have met a handful of times and you like each other. Now both sets of parents are asking for a decision. You are not against it. You simply do not know yet. In Leicester and elsewhere, this is a common and uncomfortable place to be.

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Share only what you are comfortable sharing about the relationship.
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Feelings, timing and next steps are looked at one by one.
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Phone or video, so distance is not a barrier for you.
No false hope
You hear what the chart suggests, not a promised result.
Picture two people who met through relatives three months ago. They have had several good conversations, mostly with family nearby. An aunt has begun asking about dates. One of them feels ready to say yes. The other feels they have only seen the best-behaved version of this person and would like to know more first.
Wanting more time is not a rejection, though it can be heard as one. Families may worry that hesitation means doubt about them, or that delay will cause talk. The person who is unsure then feels pressure to decide before they have what they need to decide well.
A consultation offers a calm place to work out what you still need to know and how to ask for time respectfully. Kundli matching, which many families request at this stage, can be included. It is one consideration. The decision to marry belongs to the two people marrying.
List the questions that matter to you: where to live, work, children, faith, money. Ask them directly.
Request a few conversations without family present. People are more themselves in private.
Frame it as wanting to be certain, which protects everyone, not as doubt about the match.
Make a list of what you would want to know about anyone before marrying them. The main service page explains the session format and the optional matching reading.
How the consultation worksAsk who needs the answer by then and why. Often the urgency is softer than it sounds.
A careful yes later is kinder to them than a hurried one you regret.
Tell them honestly that you like them and need a little longer. Most will respect that.
Suggest to the person you have been introduced to that you each bring a few important questions to your next meeting. How do they picture daily life? What do they expect of a spouse? How do they handle disagreement? Their answers, and how they react to being asked, will tell you a great deal.
Then speak to your parents. Thank them, say you are taking it seriously, and ask for a specific amount of time, such as a month. A defined period is easier for families to accept than an open delay. If anyone tries to force your decision with threats, that is a serious matter and you should seek outside support.
The consultation is online, so you can join privately from Leicester, with the time confirmed in both UK and India time. We discuss your circumstances as they are. For matching, accurate birth details for both people are needed, shared with consent.
No. Wanting to be sure shows you take marriage seriously. Asking politely for a set period is reasonable.
There is no fixed number. You need enough to have asked your important questions and to feel at ease.
It is one traditional indicator. It does not replace knowing whether you get on and want the same kind of life.
You are allowed to. Say it kindly and soon, so both families can move on with respect.